Tuesday, July 29, 2014

Will @ 2 Years and 8 1/2 Months

The last time I wrote an update for Will was when he turned two and half so I thought I would do a short update again before he turns 3 in November!


Will is about 33 pounds and at least 3 feet tall? I don’t know the exact measurements, but he’s wearing 3T/4T tops and shorts (his entire wardrobe is from Old Navy) this summer. Yesterday I bought a bunch of new "roll-up" pants for Will for this fall/winter. They are size 4T. I think the waist should be just fine and since they are meant to be rolled up, the length should be okay as well. Will is a solid little guy and still has a very round tummy. I don't expect him to be a lanky teenager when he gets older!

Potty Training and School

The biggest thing that happened in his life recently is BEING POTTY TRAINED. I still can’t believe how easy the entire process was. He really embraced the potty like a champ and I couldn’t be more proud. Not only he’s daytime trained, but he has been waking up dry for the past few days now. Seriously, pinch me. This kid rocks.

So now that he’s out of diapers, he’s officially going to school this fall. So, so exciting! At first we thought that him and his sister would attend the same school but just last week, a spot opened up at another school and after much thought, we decided to enroll Anna there. It’s going to cause some logistic nightmare, but I believe that the new school will better prep Anna for Kindergarten so we are going for it. As for Will, he will be going to the young 3’s class at Anna's old school (or his new school!) from 9-12 and then daycare in the afternoon.

I hope he enjoys school! I am already looking forward to the stuff he will bring home in his backpack.

Personality and Behavior

I can’t say enough good things about Will’s personality. He is so kind and generous and sweet. The other day he woke up early and was playing with the Kindle on our bed. Later Anna came bouncing by and said, “Will, can I play?” He responded, “Sure Anna!” and scooted over to make room. But because he knew what was going to happen, he followed up with, “Anna, share okay?” Haha, too cute and smart. Then on another occasion, Anna was crying (again) and he tried to console her by opening a photo album to the picture of her and Pooh at Disney World and said, “Anna, see. Happy.” Best brother ever.

Will is very much a boy – he’s all around rambunctious. He falls and trips, but rarely cries unless it really hurts. He’s not picky about clothes and just wants to get dressed as quickly as possible so he can go play.

I am still waiting for the terrible 2’s because it has been non-existent with Will. He rarely gets upset, even when he doesn't get his way. And on those few times when he does cry, he gets over them pretty quickly. He’s just an easy kid overall. I hope I didn't just jinx myself by saying that! I remember with Anna things got really tough the months leading up to her 3’s and continue to be tough even now. I am crossing my fingers that that’s not the case with Will.

But as great as Will is, there are some challenges. Sometimes it’s tough go get Will to listen. I have to repeat myself for the umpteenth time before he listens and do what was told. I get a lot of no’s from him and have to do lots of bribing. He can also be very stubborn. We hardly use strollers anymore, but once he’s tired of walking he wants to be carried and will stand at the same spot until we pick him up. To make sure that he doesn't always get what he wants, we make him walk a few steps more before picking him up and he usually cooperates.

Will’s #1 person is me. Whenever he’s in distress, he runs to me. This summer he has decided that he doesn't like the pool all that much so whenever we are in the water, he wants to cling onto us. But even when hubs promises that he won’t let go, Will still prefers being in my arms instead. I think he just knows that I don’t push him as hard and feels more secure. He also likes to sleep next to me in “mama bed.” Sometimes he will lay on top of me like an infant. Haha, this is probably the reason why I have no baby fever. He’s my own little baby, even though he’s almost 3!

Will likes to be with family. This weekend we went to the park to have a picnic and ride the carousel with a special visitor, baby Andrew (he's 9 months now!). This morning, at breakfast, he was so thoughtful and asked, “When we going to see baby Andrew again?” He also likes it when everyone is happy. He often asks, “You happy mama?” And if I say yes, he smiles so big.
I don’t meant to sound creepy, but I can just watch Will all day long, even when he’s just sleeping. He’s my most favorite boy ever. I cherish his little boy innocence and wish he could stay at this age forever, but time just marches on...

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Thursday, July 24, 2014

An Overnight Trip to Baltimore: Part 3

We took our time getting ready the next morning. The kids and hubs slept in - until 8:30! - and we gave them TV/Kindle time before finally leaving our room for breakfast. The hotel offered free breakfast so it worked out very well and the kids had fruit loops for the first time.

We were leaving for home in the afternoon and the only plan for the day was the Maryland Science Center. So after we checked out of the hotel and stored our bags with the front desk, we started walking. We really lucked out with the weather because it wasn't hot at all, but of course, the kids still complained. So when we saw these water jets along the way (FYI, they were near the Visitor Center), we decided to let them play, even though we didn't have any spare clothes with us. We asked them not go get too wet and they actually listened.
Except for one annoying incident of Anna being scared at the planetarium, the kids enjoyed the museum a lot more this time around. It just happened to be "Bubble Days" so we watched a very entertaining bubble show and the kids got to play with some bubbles. They asked to go into the bubble pool, but their father vetoed the idea so all they got was a bucket. Still had fun, though :)
Back in April, when we first visited, they reluctantly walked through the dinosaur exhibit. Not so this time.
We also gave each of them 51 cents to make a souvenir coin. They were pretty excited about that, haha. Kids get a kick out of the simplest things.
Kids Room - their most favorite place.
Look at that concentration on their faces!
I wish we could do trips like this every weekend, but we would go broke and the kids would probably stop appreciating them. We were home by Saturday afternoon and still had Sunday free to run errands. And by errands, I meant that the hubs and I went on a movie date while the kids stayed with their grandparents.
So that was our Baltimore trip! It was too short, but good times.

See Part 1 and Part 2.

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Tuesday, July 22, 2014

An Overnight Trip to Baltimore: Part 2

The dragon paddle boat ride was my favorite part of our Baltimore trip. Just look at the view we had from the water:
Prior to dinner, we made a deal with the kids that if they behaved well, we would go on a boat ride afterwards. As I said, dinner went reasonably well so the entire family got to experience something new for the first time. I was psyched, the kids were psyched, Luke was meh about it but went for it anyway :)

Because the weight had to be balanced, Anna sat in the front with hubs and Will was in the back with me. And because only the people in the front could paddle, that meant the hubs did all the paddling, haha :) He got quite a workout. It was fun for the rest of us though. The kids couldn't stop beaming from ear to ear. They really liked it!
It was honestly a good family fun so I recommend this activity wholeheartedly, especially if you have little kids. I think the evening hours is the best time to go, when the sun is down for the day. Much cooler, much more enjoyable. As for the cost, it was $18 to rent the paddle boat for 30 minutes. I think we were out on the water for about 20 minutes...Luke was exhausted!
Now that the kids are older, I am not such a stickler about bedtime anymore, especially when we are away from home. So after the boat ride, we strolled around the Inner Harbor a bit and even walked the longer route (via a bridge) back to our hotel.
After we got back to the hotel, we showered and climbed into bed. I think it took all of us no longer than 10 minutes to fall asleep? It had been a long day. Oh yes, have I mentioned that our room was teeny tiny and it only had one bed? But even though it was a tight squeeze, we all slept soundly through the night.
To be continued.

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Monday, July 21, 2014

An Overnight Trip to Baltimore: Part 1

This weekend we went on an overnight trip to Baltimore!
Last Friday, Luke and I took off work early, picked up the kids at daycare, and hit the road for Baltimore. We had planned this trip just a week prior because 1) we had a free Marriott hotel stay that needed to be used up, and 2) the tickets we had to the Maryland Science Center was expiring as well. So I figured, why not? It turned out to be a fun little trip. I am going to break it up into 3 posts to tell you all about it :)

Although we left the house at 1:30, hoping to beat traffic, there were a few accidents/road work along the way and we didn’t get to our hotel till nearly 3:15. The ride was longer than I expected, but Will was asleep most of the way so it turned out alright. Once we got to the hotel, we were told that our room was not ready yet. So we spent the next half hour at the lounging area and the room was ready by 4, the actual check-in time. We settled in, got our stuff ready, and went to our first planned stop –  Port Discovery Children’s Museum!

Part of the reason why we picked this particular weekend to go to Baltimore was also because of the $2 Family Fun Night at Port Discovery. Usually the ticket is $15 per person, but once a month on a Friday night, it is discounted to just $2. However, a big HOWEVER, this just meant that the place was PACKED with people. So here is a tip for the locals – I highly DO NOT recommend Family Fun Night….unless you set your expectations low and know that you will just see a few exhibits and come back next time (on another Family Fun Night).

This was not our case, I don't see us coming back here in the foreseeable future, but we made the best out of it.

For my water-loving kiddos, we spent most of the time at Wonders of Water.

The bubble hoop provided great picture opportunities.
And they spent so much time here, just connecting pipes and getting wet.
Luckily our hotel was close because we ended up having to go back to our room to change the kids into dry clothes. Then we went back to the museum again to see a few more exhibits, but it wasn’t long before we were all hungry and left the place for good.

We ended up eating at The Cheesecake Factory, right in the heart of Inner Harbor. For appetizer, we ordered Avocado Eggrolls, which I pretty much inhaled the whole thing myself. So yummy! Then we had several pasta dishes to share - Farfalle with Chicken and Roasted Garlic, Cajun Jambalaya Pasta, and a "naked" pasta off the kids' menu. All equally delicious! We were stuffed by the end, but of course, Luke couldn't go to The Cheesecake Factory without eating an actual cheesecake so we did.
Overall, the dinner was very good. The kids behaved and ate decently. So we kept the promise we had made with them and we were off on a boat ride!
To be continued.

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Monday, July 14, 2014

The End of Will's Potty Training Saga

(I am following the same format as last time – this is a post about potty training, but with pictures from our weekend inserted.)

Potty training Will has got to be one of the easiest things I have done as a parent. The entire process was easy, calm, and…have I mentioned easy?

I already recapped Days 1-3 here. On Day 4, we sent him to daycare for the first time in underwear with extra pairs in his backpack. I asked our daycare lady to put him on the potty every 30-45 minutes, but he ended up having two accidents that day. It was pretty discouraging since he had none on Day 3! On Day 5, he had one accident at home (while waiting for Anna to get off the potty) and one at daycare. On Day 6, he woke up dry from his sleep and had no accident all day! On Day 7, he had one accident at daycare. And started on Day 8, he has been accident free!

Although we taught Will how to use the potty by putting him on it every x minutes, he has actually learned to TELL US when he needs to go. This is why I can confidently claim that he’s 99.99% trained! Yes we do still make him go before we leave the house or remind him if it’s been a really long time, but for the most part, he’s independent about the timing. So great!

Now about our weekend. On Day 9, we took a long trip to Grandma's house. Will did just fine and we left with bags of vegetables and herbs from Grandma's garden. On the way home, we stopped for lunch and then to the library to turn in our completed Summer Reading Program. It felt good to have that checked off on the Summer Fun List!
After we got home and napped, we set the kids up for some water play in our screen-in porch. Below is an example of a poor man's version of swimming pool. The kids sure still had fun, though. This was also when I realized that Will knows to tell us when he needs to go because he stopped TWICE during water play to say that he needed to pee. From that point on, I stopped taking him to the potty every x minutes.
On Sunday, Day 10, my parents and I took the kids to Burke Lake Park...
and I got this great shot of the kids. I love candid shots but it's also nice to have a picture of them both smiling and looking at the camera. I still don't know what came over them. Usually when I ask for a picture, I get two kids either running in opposite directions or acting really goofy.
Being out and about this weekend -- using public potties and having no accidents -- made me really comfortable in taking Will out in his underwear. It's a good thing because we are going on an overnight trip in a few days!

I can't believe that it was only a weekend ago that we were in the thick of potty training and now we are all done. We've all heard that potty training boys are harder and I was so worried about it. Well, I am here to say that it was PAINLESS. Also, just because you have a boy, it doesn't mean that you have to delay potty training (which admittedly, I did).

But anyway, I am so proud of my boy. He was so quick in learning everything. Congratulations Will! You did it! What an accomplishment :)

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Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Will's Potty Training Weekend

Will is hardly potty-trained, but I thought I would write a status update and also to recap the long weekend at the same time.

I am pushing hard to get Will to use the potty because I want him to go to school with Anna starting this September and being potty-trained is a requirement even in the youngest class. He is almost 2 years and 8 months old, which I think is plenty big for a child to get the concept of using the potty. So over the 3 day weekend, we went for it.

In my opinion, there are two methods to do potty training One, wait for him to tell me when he needs to pee or two, take him to the potty every so often (like, every 30 to 45 minutes). I wanted to go for the first method because I THINK it is more effective (you know, to allow him to make mistakes and learn from them), but I knew I couldn't handle the stress of waiting for accidents to happen. So I took the second approach, which was what I did with Anna....and she did learn...eventually.

So Friday morning (Day 1), I put Will in a Pull-Up and took him to the potty every 30 minutes. He pee'd each time. Of course he was reluctant, but M&Ms and Kindle time did the trick. His Pull-Up was dry for at least 2 hours, until he pee'd in it while watching Blue's Clues and had no reaction whatsoever. So then I made a decision to switch him to undies from then on.

The rest of the morning was spent playing outside - with chalk, bubbles, outdoor toys - while asking him constantly if he needed to use the potty but still taking him every 30 to 40 minutes. The weather was so un-July like, it even warranted a light jacket!
In the evening my parents came over and at night, we had our own little firework display. He only had one accident the whole day. Not bad for Day 1 at all! He also pooped in the potty!

On Saturday (Day 2) we decided to take a very short excursion. We went to a little stream minutes away from our home. Hubs had discovered it while running one day and it was a perfect spot for our little kids. For local folks, the stream is located inside Wildwood Park in Vienna and you can step into the water in various spots throughout the park. The moving water made the stream very clean and I had no reservations in letting the kids frolic in it.
We saw many little creatures, which included a bunch of small fish and dragonflies. In the picture above, hubs caught a tiny fish and the kids were taking turns touching it. I was happy see my kids enjoying nature, although they said they prefer TV over being outside.
wildwood park
We spent about 45 minutes here and unfortunately, Will had a pee accident.

After we got home and Will took a potty break, we let the kids play outside with the sprinkler.
Day 2 ended with two more accidents, but again he pooped in the potty which made me proud :)

Then came Sunday (Day 3). We decided to chance it and took them to Our Special Harbor Spray Park about 25 minutes away. We had gone at the end of last summer and loved it. Don't let the smiles fool you because I don't think the kids *really* had fun this time. There were fun moments, but for the most part it was frustrating because they kept on fighting over the watering can toy that we took along with us. I mean, they had this wonderful facility at their disposal and all they wanted was filling up that stupid watering can and pouring the water out. Whatever, kids.
But regardless, more importantly, Will did not have any accidents and he pee'd in the public restroom for the first time! Yes I know it is hard to keep track whether or not he pee'd on himself in a spray park, but he stayed dry on the way down, used the potty twice while there, and stayed dry again on the way home. So I am pretty sure it was a success.
On the 3rd day, with me taking him to the potty every 40-50 minutes, he did not have any accidents.

I don't know how some kids are able to be trained in 3 days because, here we are on Day 6, Will is definitely still learning. Right now he's in underwear at all time during waking hours, but in diapers when sleeping. We still have to take him to the potty rather than him proactively going on his own. The silver lining is that at least accidents are few and far in between so maybe he's at least holding the pee until we take him to potty? In fact, he actually woke up dry this morning after 11 hours of sleep! Either way, I think with still almost 2 months until September, he should make the school deadline with time to spare. Update again next time!

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Monday, July 7, 2014

Apparently, we potty train kids on America's birthday.

Two years ago, we started potty training our firstborn on July Fourth and it looks like we inadvertently carried on that tradition with our second. On this Independence Day, instead of barbecues and flag cakes, we were knee deep in pee and poop. Not literally, thankfully. Will is surprising us all and embracing the potty like a champ. I will write more about it as we get further along.

Although we stayed in all day (well, to be accurate, Anna and hubs were out shopping for a bit), we didn't miss out on ALL the fun traditions of the 4th. This year Luke decided to put on a show for the kids right in our front yard. A few days prior, he went out and bought a bunch of fountains, smoke bombs, sparklers all on his own. The entire day, the kids were so excited and kept asking, "Is it dark yet?" over and over. Unfortunately, when it was finally dark and the first smoke bomb went off, Anna got scared and ran back inside the house (and stayed there). Will was intimidated, but he stuck around and ended up playing with the sparklers! His first time!

I knew I wanted some good pictures, so I busted out my big camera and learned about shutter speed. I know, way overdue. We were not coordinated enough to write anything fancy with the sparklers, but I thought they turned out just fine anyway!
How was your long weekend?

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Thursday, July 3, 2014

lately / summer fun list, water play, sunflowers, winky smile

I am late, but I thought I would join the party and post my fun list for Summer 2014.

If you can read my chicken scratch, here it is:
To beat the summer heat, we bought this sprinkler for the kids. And last weekend when we went to visit the grandparents, we tested it out for the first time. Both kids enjoyed it so much and except for when we ate pizza, they were out playing the entire time. Definitely a boredom buster and a wonderful investment! The next day I took them to Mosaic District for more water play, but I have to say that I think my kids have outgrown the baby water jets.
When we planted those sunflower seeds over the Easter weekend, we had no idea they were gonna get THIS gigantic. It will be interesting to see just how tall they get. But more importantly, will we ever get any flowers? Oh, and Anna. All of a sudden, she knows exactly how to blow bubbles. Give the girl a bottle of the bubbly stuff and she can entertain herself for a long time.
Our "herb" garden is a hot mess.
And finally a #latergram. I didn't get a chance to post these pictures in my Williamsburg recap posts, but they are too cute not to to share. The kids had some fun trying on statement necklaces at the outlet. That Will smile kills me.

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Wednesday, July 2, 2014

This is how we vacation.

Since coming back, many people have asked what the heck we did in Williamsburg for A WHOLE WEEK. I don’t blame them for being curious. Before I had kids, I would never have considered using my precious PTO on somewhere like Williamsburg. Snooze-ville right? If I had to use my vacation time, it had better be for somewhere far and away! But now with kids in tow, Williamsburg is easily our destination of choice. We pack up, pile into our van, and drive three hours to escape the hustle and bustle of real life...it’s perfection. As I mentioned, this time we stayed at my friend’s timeshare. We treated them to two dinners in exchange of a week’s stay. Sounds perfectly reasonable to me ;) So not only we had a great vacation, it was cheap to boot!

(And just as a side note: we vacationed at the Outer Banks and Myrtle Beach before and while those are probably more popular choices, the long drive just isn’t worth it for us. Yes the beaches are bigger and better, but when the kids are ages 4 and 2.5, a tiny stretch of sand is all they need to make them happy.)
So what exactly did we do each day? Well, this is our recipe of success. We all wake up sleepily, get dressed, and have breakfast at home. Then we head out for our morning activity, to the pool/beach/river, between 9:30 to 9:45. We come back, get clean, and eat a late lunch (Chinese take-out/leftovers). Then we all nap, usually beginning at around 2, which is much later than their normal nap time at home. Kids wake up after 5 and then we do something in the evening (out to dinner, shopping at the outlet, playground, stay home, pool, etc). Then bath, books, and sleep! So as you can see, we kept it very low key -- just one or two activities a day and we made sure to give the kids (and us!) the opportunity to nap and recharge instead of running around all day.

So this is how we vacation, you?

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